You Can’t Avoid It

• Balanca’s Pyro Room (1809 Grand, 816-474-6369). Swinger-friendly, queer-friendly and generally unpredictable, this dark bar opens at 6 p.m. and has two-for-one drinks all night to get you in the mood. DJs Pint Size and Chris Michaels bring the beats.

Sun., Feb. 14, 2010