Letters for the Week of May 22
I read Jen Chen’s story about Matthew Pope and his classmates at Shawnee Mission East twice. Not because I missed anything the first time. I read it again because it made me feel so good. Made me want to be back in school again.
I’m so tired of the agents of intolerance telling us to be afraid. Afraid of gays, afraid of lesbians, afraid of gays in the military, of a gay couple living next door. Hooey.
There is nothing to be afraid of — never has been, never will be. After reading this wonderful story, it seems to me there’s a lot that needs to be celebrated. I want a friend like Matt and friends like Matt’s friends. Thanks to Jen for a great feel-good article. And thanks to Matt and all his cool buddies for living, loving and leading by example.
Mike Sheperis, Lee’s Summit
I want to congratulate Jen Chen for exposing the fact that in 21st-century, contemporary society, it is no big deal to be lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgendered. Job well done to Jen and her subject, Matthew Pope, and all the students, parents and staff at Shawnee Mission East. Each and every one of that plurality of actors resisted the temptation to make catatonic blunders in Matthew’s years at East. This article leaves hope that so many more talented yet closeted students of all genders, creeds and colors will see the light. It is not necessarily about reaching the corporate apex. It is about being true to oneself!
David Davis, Overland Park
That is a wonderful article Jen Chen wrote about Matthew Pope: a very objective and concise but complete description of his special senior year. The school sounds like a special place, too. I am a member of Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays and Straight for Equality, trying to be as out and proud as he is. Before he goes to school at the University of Oklahoma, however, I want him to realize that Oklahoma state Rep. Sally Kern has given multiple hate speeches against gays just this year. She is supported by the Republicans in the Oklahoma Legislature. I recommend that Matthew be sure there is an active gay-straight alliance on any campus he attends.
Linda Mendoza, Chico, California
Sometimes I think young people are wiser about dealing with difference than adults, but your article is perhaps the most vivid example of this I have read. Congratulations to Matthew Pope and all his friends and family; they all have reason to be proud.
Bill Begert, New York City
Thank you for writing about Matthew Pope and sharing his story. It’s very inspiring to learn about a gay teenager overcoming personal and social challenges and ultimately being accepted and even rewarded by his peers for being exactly who he is: a kindhearted person who cares about himself and those around him. Shawnee Mission East is lucky to have this kid. We all are, actually.
Douglas Geller, New York City